• In the US, one person will die every 52 minutes as the result of complications from an eating disorder
  • Anorexia nervosa has the highest mortality rate of any mental illness.
  • Anorexia is the 3rd most common chronic illness among adolescents
  • 10-15% of people with anorexia are males
  • 5-10% of individuals with anorexia die within 10 years of developing the disorder, and 18-20% die within 20 years.
  • 11% of high school students suffer with an eating disorder
  • Eating disorder risk among US college students rose from 15% in 2013 to 28% in 2020/2021
  • High school and college wrestlers are 7-10 times more likely to develop bulimia nervosa than the average male
  • ​Athletes face intense pressure to excel, which puts them at higher risk for eating disorders—affecting 45% of female athletes and 19% of male athletes​
  • Nearly half of all Americans know someone with an eating disorder
  • 12% of adolescent girls have some form of eating disorder
  • Males represent about 30% of all people diagnosed with eating disorders
  • 13% of women over the age of 50 engage in unhealthy weight control behaviors, including purging, excessive exercise, and laxative use
  • Over 60% of 3,000 surveyed women in the military had an eating disorder. In the Marine Corps alone, 97.5% met the criteria.
  • LGBTQ+ youth are 3x more likely to develop eating disorders compared to their heterosexual peers.
  • Only 1 in 10 people with an eating disorder receive treatment
  • Only 35-40% of people with anorexia nervosa or bulimia receive treatment
  • ​Inpatient treatment typically costs up to $60,000 for a 30-day program

How to Offer Support

What do you say to someone with an eating disorder? 
We asked those currently struggling, and these were their responses.

What To Say

  • Offer to accompany the person to a therapy appointment. If the person is not in therapy, offer to set up an appointment and go with him/her.
  • Call or visit and ask how I’m doing. Just listen, don’t judge or give me unsolicited advice.
  • Honestly, just being supportive and loving would make a world of difference.
  • “I love you no matter what.”
  • “Do you want me to help problem solve or just listen right now?”
  • “Is there anything I can do to help you right now?”
  • I think just being THERE for the person is really important. For me I think a large part of getting better was having someone who simply loved me and supported me.
  • Giving compliments that have absolutely nothing to do with physical appearance.

What Not To Say

  • Resist any urges to talk about your diets. ED is not a diet.
  • Never criticize or shame the individual.
  • Don’t be a food monitor or insist the problem is just a matter of eating.
  • Don’t make comments like, “You’re not fat.” or “You’re too thin.”  These comments redirect attention to body shape and weight, and these are not the true issues.
  • Never say, “I wish I had that problem. I need to lose weight.” Eating disorders are deadly and you wouldn’t want that problem any more than you would want cancer.
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